Friday, November 12, 2010
This is my sister in law, Pat, with her horse and one of her baby goats. She is/was married to Mike's brother, Rod, who passed away 2 years ago. She has a farm with goats, cows, chickens, horses and I'm sure there are other critters I am forgetting. Oh yea Eleanor the dog. Pat is so strong and she is the reason I ever thought of joining the quilting world. She planted the seed and there you go the rest is history. I think she was being selfish doing this because she did not want to be the one with to much fabric. Her and I have become so close over the years and thru Raychel's illness she really was my rock.
Pat had breast cancer twice many years ago and beat it and everything has been fine. She came to spend the weekend with me so we could sew and hang out in my sewing room for hours but she was not feeling the best. She finally went to the Dr this past Monday and found out that she has ovarian cancer. I have cried this whole week every time I think of her and that is very often. Even Mike is so saddened by this and he is not to much of an emotional guy.
I am so afraid of this cancer just because of what I have heard about it over the years. She goes in for surgery next week and I will be there. Surgery was suppose to be on Wednesday and they just changed it to Friday which is better. I can go up and spend the weekend with her while she is in the hospital. She lives in Wilmar Mn which is about 1-1/2 hrs west of Minneapolis so I'm just not sure if her boys will be coming in for the weekend and being there or if they will go afterwards on Friday.
I hate getting old. It seems the older you get the more your friends get sick.